They found out half by accident when at the scan in March the doctor was pointing out the baby's organs and referring to "his" spleen, his liver etc.
Son said "his"? we didn't want to know ... So the doctor said it was his default terminology, rather than saying its spleen, its liver etc.
They came away unconvinced that it was the doctors default terminology, then at the last scan 2 weeks ago, my son saw something that he shouldn't have ( not sure what), but it said female and they couldn't cope with the suspense any longer and decided to ask.
Now I'm knitting different sizes for a little girl. ❤
Ole, they're having a girl.