hi incekum has one of the best beaches for kids as it is shallow for quite a way out..alanya has huge wide beaches..but the sea shelves steeply and quickly
incekum(the name means fine sand) is between alanya and Side.
colaklı too has a good beach..its the other side of side...there is a holiday comples there..sidelya ..that does self catering.
there are some nice aparthotels in Alanya...its a nice big town with plenty to see and do..

Have a look at Babadan Apartments Icmeler through Thomson. It is perfect for families with two pools and a large play area. These apartments are 15 mins walk from the beach, check out the Forum, the last entry was by me on Jan 3rd. Also, look at the Hotel Review, click on Hotel Reviews, then click on Turkey and then scroll down to Babadan. Babadan Apartments also have their own website. Good luck.

Les

hi if you are looking for an apartment in nice resort try club tokmak in icmeler run by nice couple musatfa and sarah try http://www.clubtokmak.com